The Importance of Asking (the Right) Questions
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The Importance of Asking (the Right) Questions

We often stamp a day as bad without realizing we skipped the most important step—asking questions. By breaking a harsh conclusion into gentler questions, we can widen our perspective, soften our bodies, and reclaim a sense of choice. This practice isn’t about perfection; it’s about building a kinder relationship with ourselves, one small question at a time.

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When Anger Is Sacred: Letting Go of the Performance of Being ‘Okay’
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When Anger Is Sacred: Letting Go of the Performance of Being ‘Okay’

We’re often taught that anger is something to suppress—especially if we want to be seen as kind, calm, or “put together.” But what if anger isn’t the problem? What if it’s a sacred messenger, a doorway back to desire, truth, and self-worth? In this blog post, I explore the emotional cost of performing okayness—and share a raw, poetic reflection on reclaiming anger as a vital part of healing.

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What If Feeling Lonely Doesn’t Mean Something Is Wrong With You?
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What If Feeling Lonely Doesn’t Mean Something Is Wrong With You?

Loneliness doesn’t always look like what we expect. Sometimes it shows up at dinner with acquaintances, or on a birthday that feels quieter than it should. In therapy, I often meet people who carry loneliness not because they’re doing something wrong—but because they’re wired for connection, and that need hasn’t been met in the ways they’ve longed for. In this post, I explore the quieter dimensions of loneliness, how our past shapes our sense of belonging, and what healing can look like when we stop trying to “fix” ourselves and start relating to our complexity with compassion.

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The Versions of Me I Almost Became
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The Versions of Me I Almost Became

Have you ever wondered who you might have become if things had gone just a little differently? In this reflective piece, I explore the “almost selves” we carry—what they reveal about our grief, longing, and hope for healing.

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How to Start Trusting Yourself (Even When You Feel Full of Doubt)
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How to Start Trusting Yourself (Even When You Feel Full of Doubt)

What if the part of you that hesitates isn’t wrong — just scared, just protecting something precious?

So many of us were taught to second-guess our own knowing, to look outside for answers, validation, even permission. But there’s a quiet voice inside you that’s still speaking — even if it’s whispering through the noise.

In this post, we’ll explore what it really means to rebuild trust with yourself. Not through perfection or getting it all right, but through listening, gentleness, and small moments of self-honoring. Whether you’re facing self-worth struggles, people-pleasing, or decision paralysis, this is an invitation to come home to the wisdom already within you.

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